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A Hard Time To Be An Arab Female
A friend of mine is a beautiful Arab female who is having a hard time meeting a suitable Arab husband. She actually tried to date people of other races for a while, but incredibly, she was unable to forge a lasting relationship due to either the prejudices of the people she dated or their friends and family. It’s pretty amazing to me that in this day and age these attitudes still exist, and I’m saddened to know that so many people in this great country can harbor thoughts of ill will toward an entire race of people based on the actions of a few, and the way the media and our politicians have so irresponsibly blamed a particular group of people for spreading terror. So, in order to meet someone, she has started checking out some Arab dating sites.
Dos and Don’ts of Dating
There are no hard and fast rules to dating, but here are some tips that won't do any harm.
Do let go of the past. It's done. Build yourself a small bridge and get over it. Quit telling your story; it's boring.
Don't jump straight into another relationship. Take some time to adjust; you need to be alone for a while to rediscover who you are.
Do find a balance. Seek love, but don't make it your whole life. Get a hobby. Knit, volunteer. Knit yourself a volunteer.
Do cultivate relationships with other single people; it's depressing being the token singleton in a crowd of couples; like being alone on Noah's Ark.
Don't drink in excess on dates. It's pathetic and leads to arm-gnawing moments of awkwardness later.
Don't come on too strong. It's unnerving, and you're dating, not stalking. Keep the mystery and let things progress naturally.
Don't introduce the person you're seeing to your friends and family too early; it's tempting when you're used to being part of a couple, but is overwhelming.
Do be open; rigid rules about a 'type' may mean you dismiss somebody lovely.
Do maintain your self-respect; go easy with sharing information. There's plenty of time to get to know each other; no early soul-baring. It smacks of desperation.
Don't take it all so seriously. Approach it with a sense of openness and fun. Flirt a bit, enjoy it all, and you'll be infinitely more attractive!
Visualizing your ideal partner…
Visualizing your ideal partner and the relationship you want is a great motivator. Athletes have long understood this process of imagery and will visualize a goal before acting on it. You can do the same with your love life. Give it a shot now! You have nothing to lose.
Close your eyes and picture your ideal partner. Engage all your senses. How does this person smell? What does he or she look like? Listen to this person’s voice. How does it sound? Where are you? What are you doing? Are your friends and family around? How does he or she interact with them? Try this a few times until the picture becomes clear, then take out a piece of paper and make a list of the most important characteristics of this partner.
List about 20 qualities that mean something to you. What values and attributes does this person have? Look over your list and separate your “deal breakers” from your “ideals.” “Deal breakers” are the absolute nonnegotiable traits, like finding a partner who wants children or is of the same religion (if those traits are important to you).
“Ideals” are more about the attributes or traits you’d prefer, like “ambitious” or “good sense of humor.” By prioritizing which qualities are important and which are ideal, you’ll discover what you’re absolutely unwilling to accept and where you’ve got some flexibility.
Niche Dating Sites Offering White Label Solutions
Recently I have been contacted by a number of companies wanting to set me up with my own dating site. The twist is that these companies already run destination dating sites. MillionaireMatch says:
We can set it up for you at no cost if you have strong interest in work-at-home business. You can pick the name for the millionaire dating site, and own the domain and brand. We take care of all the backend and engineering work.
You don’t have to worry that no one exists at your millionaire dating site at the beginning. Your site will share millions of quality profiles with other millionaire sites we have already set up. Your users can immediately contact hundreds of thousands of other users once they register at your millionaire dating site.
You can earn money if you have users registering with or without becoming a payment member.
It is easy to get users visiting your deaf dating site by doing the followings:
1. Invite friends, friends of your friends to visit your dating site;
2. Write blogs on popular sites. Think about how to promote your dating site in
smart way;
3. Create friend circle on some social networking sites to get to know more
friends.;
4. Use business card, fly sheet to promote your dating site when joining social activities;
I met the owner of Millionaire Match recently, MM is one of the more successful dating sites for affluent people and those attracted to them. Interesting to see them branching out to offer private label version of their site. As dating site traffic numbers continue to remain flat or deteriorate, will we see more dating sites offering private label version of their sites and how will these established niches compete with White Label Dating, Bonefish and World Dating Partners?
Finding A Good Muslim Dating Service
I’m not a Muslim. In fact, I’m not a Christian either, at least not a practicing one. When it comes to religion, I try to keep it out of my daily life and it rarely enters into my dating life, except with my last girlfriend, but that’s a story for another time. You could imagine my surprise when the other day a friend of mine, who knows me pretty well, asked if I could recommend a Muslim dating service for him. While I’m sort of a dating guru to my friends, I’ve never tried dating Muslims. This is not out of any type of bias on my part, just the way things have turned out until now.
Online Dating Insider: 10-17-2008
Ignighter Raises $1.2 Million For Group Dating.
Still, it’s unclear at this point whether there’ll be space in the online dating galaxy for group matching, let alone two virtually indistinguishable players. Both Ignighter and Mixtt have said they could be useful for people who just want to find other friends, clubbing partners, book clubbers and the like, but Meetup already has the traction there. If one is to survive, they should probably look into differentiating themselves, and fast.
SNAP Interactive Q3 ‘08 Revenue $870,000, up from $35,000 a year ago. I’m meeting Snap in NYC next week, hopefully I learn more about their traffic-driving deal with Match.com.
Weekly Digest of the Social Networking Space: Oct 15, 2008
Slate Your Date, win money while complaining about your dates. I love reading bad date stories. Craigslist is the reigning champion, while this site seems more UK-based.
DIY Dating , which I had never heard of before. Has anyone used it?
From the mailbag:
I need an alibi for a certain date and returning on a certain date for my spouse. So I need sumone to supply a fake plane ticket and or stub for those dates. Can you help me?
What an interesting service idea. I’m sure some enterprising low-life with a printer can help you out.
FollowMeCupid Virtual Dating Chaperone
Chris Nguyen at Cupid.com wrote in to announce the launch of a safety feature called FollowMeCupid.com. FollowMeCupid is one of those services where you enter your date details and a contact into the website. If you don’t check in on time your contact is, well, contacted.
FollowMeCupid is useful because you don’t have to explicitly tell your friends you are going out on a date, they only get the message if you fail to check in.
To try it out, I set up an event this morning, which is simple. I set the date, time, primary and a secondary contacts, for my “date.” The contacts were myself in both instances. As expected, I received text messages to my phone and email at the appointed times.
The only part that confused me are the checkboxes next to my contacts. What are they for? I checked one box and not the other and still got emails and SMS’s to both my contacts.
The emails are not formatted well, contain grammar errors and for some reason don’t contain information on how to contact the person that may be in trouble. Talk about useless. I said my name is Dave. What if my contact know’s more than one Dave? Do they call all of them? Did anyone test this on real people before announcing it? I think not.
I would never trust my physical well-being to a website run by a dating site without knowing a lot more about how it works. What’s the uptime on the site? Are there redundancy and backup servers spread across the country? Is the site connected to the internet and cell phone networks in fail-safe manner? What happens when the system crashes and is unable to send an SOS to your contact?
My overall reaction to FollowMeCupid is there are sites that already offer similar functionality, not sure why we need another one. The website looks good but obviously not enough thought was put into how people would actually use it. The ability to use the service on other dating sites as a link or API would be great. Perhaps version 2 will fix some of the problems and make it more useful.
The Dealmaker
by Katy Franklin.

In my last article, “The Dealbreaker,” someone posted a comment suggesting my next one be about “DealMAKERS.” I thought that was a great idea. Instead of being so negative, and discussing how guys can turn us off, I wanted to show some ways in which guys can turn us ON. So now, I give you “Dealmakers,” otherwise known as 50 things guys can do to make us smile, make us sit up and pay attention, make us think twice about them, or even make us fall in love with them.
He has great teeth
He opens the car door for you (even if you’d rather get it yourself, you have to admit it’s a sweet, old-fashioned gesture.)
He asks your drink and then gets one for you
Does Match.com Promotes Infidelity?
by Zane Trae Kearney.

“It’s Okay to Look.” Only in certain contexts and situations could this slogan be construed as a truthful notion in the dating scene. In everyday conversations this phrase gets tossed around by men and women in relationships talking amongst their friends about the “hottie” they saw the other day in the parking lot. “Hey, it’s not cheating. It’s okay to look.”
There’s a fine line, however, between the hottie you saw by happenstance in the parking lot the other day and the hotties you’re looking at on the internet via dating websites. I’ll give you an example and we’ll see if you can distinguish the difference. To embody yourself into a setting, I was in a seemingly steady relationship for a year already. Ostensibly things were heading down the path of taking things to the never-ending “next level” and the sensation that I found “that one” was embedded in my thoughts.



